One reason I love working at Women’s Hope is because you see God at work daily, up close and personal. This week, one of our longtime clients stopped in for a visit and to participate in our Earn While You Learn program. She is an amazing young lady who is always positive and energetic. Her life has been touched by sadness through many miscarriages and, even with her last pregnancy, one of her twins miscarried. She asked to speak with me because she had delivered her baby at 27 weeks and wanted to show me pictures. She grabbed her pictures to show me her new angel who only weighed a little over 2lbs! As I looked at the precious little bundle, the first thing I noticed was how the baby’s skin just seemed to hang off his bones –- the “bag of bones” look. My heart hurt deeply for her. The pictures took me back to another baby I knew that had been a preemie, a baby who also looked like a bag of bones, although he weighed a little over 4lbs and was a few weeks older. That baby was my own boy Jordan.
As we shared about the challenges of parenting a preemie, she remarked that she didn’t understand why the hospital required her to keep heated blankets on her body when she was bonding with her baby, as they were skin to skin. I replied that Jordan required similar treatment, and that I looked forward to him sweating so I could turn the heat off in April and May, since it was already hot and difficult to keep him swaddled in 3 blankets and 2 hoodies at all time. The reason is that babies that small cannot regulate their own temperatures. Moms have to help them.
I felt God urging me to pray with her and the baby’s daddy. God brought to mind the words I repeated over and over after the doctors told me that Jordan was going to be born early – that Jordan would “thrive on the outside!” It was my desperate plea for God to supervise a difficult situation – that regardless of his tiny body, his small “bag of bones,” the trouble he had in controlling his own temperature, and my fear in making a mistake - that God would step in and help him thrive. As I prayed with them, I could not help but sob quietly, knowing that God had heard and answered my prayer about my boy and that Jordan continues to “thrive on the outside.”
It is so like God to bring two parallel stories together to bless us. What a joy to be able to encourage someone because you have already walked the same ground. And oh, that that boy, Jordan, who came into this world several weeks early and left the hospital at 4lbs 2ozs is now turning 18 on this April 7th, and will graduate from AHS in May. I thank God every day for answering the desperate plea of a young, inexperienced mother.
I am blessed to have the opportunity to share life with those God sends our way, and I know God is opening the door for YOUR life experiences, to bring glory and honor to Him while we encourage others during difficulty and challenge. I thank God for each one of you who have answered the call to share what Jesus has done for you!
2 Corinthians 1:3-7 says “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows. If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation, if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in you patient endurance of the same sufferings we suffer. And our hope for you is firm, because we know that just as you share in our sufferings, so also you share in our comfort.”
This is my prayer for all my volunteer client advocates: Philippians 1:3-6 “I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”